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'The world lost a great man': Friends say Horace Coleman dedicated his life to serving, mentoring

Posted at 7:04 PM, Jul 23, 2018
and last updated 2018-07-24 06:03:31-04

INDIANAPOLIS -- Friends and family say one of the men killed in the tragic duck boat accident last week in Missouri had dedicated his life to serving his community and helping local kids.  

Horace Coleman, 70, was on vacation with his family when tragedy struck while they were taking a duck boat tour on Table Rock Lake.

He and eight other family members, including four of his grandchildren, perished when the boat capsized during a storm. His daughter-in-law, Tia, and 13-year-old grandson, Donovan, were the only two survivors.  

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Friends described Horace as a man who loved his family and lived to serve his community. He spent countless hours at Riverside Park where he had volunteered with the Dad’s Club Football League for nearly 40 years and served as vice president of the league.

League President Anthony King says Horace wasn’t just his vice president though, he was also a friend, and he served as a mentor and life coach for the young men he worked with.

 “Dad’s Club lost their heart on Friday,” King said. “That was tough. We lost our heart.”

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King says he first met Horace, who he calls “Coach Butch,” when he played on the league as a child.

“I had the privilege of being coached by Butch when I came into the league at 9-years-old,” King said. “So here at 34 years old, I can say that I’ve known him over the expectancy of my life… 25 years is a long time.”'

King says Horace was a stern coach but was also one of the most loving, caring and selfless men he had ever known. He says their relationship went well beyond the field and he still counted on and cherished the advice Horace would give him.

“Once you leave this league, they stick with you. Coach you all throughout your life, not just football,”  King said. “I think as adults you think you can handle it all, but in reality, you still need people to help you and guide you in the right direction. Butch was just that. He was a friend of mine – more than a vice president, more than a coworker - he was a friend.”

Aside from the countless hours Horace spent on the field mentoring kids, King says he was a man who loved his family more than anything.

“If you knew him you knew how much they all meant to him,” said King. “Grandkids and all. He didn’t like them running in and out of his house, but he didn’t’ want them going anywhere either.”

King says it will be hard to get back onto the field without Horace by his side, but he plans to work even harder to do whatever he can to help the kids in their league – because that’s what Coach Butch would do.

“He didn’t want to leave any kid behind. Butch was the kind of guy that would go in his pocket to pay for a kid that didn’t have registration money. That’s the kind of guy he was.”

In honor of Horace Coleman, the Dad’s Club Football League canceled their practice Monday evening so that the players and coaches could attend the vigil for the family.

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